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The New TNT!MEN Board direction and mandate!
The
purpose of TNT!MEN is to ensure that men, from all Walks-of-Life,
have opportunities for social nudist activities, distinctly geared
to men. Because we don’t have our own Clubhouse, we largely depend
on the generosity of local facilities, or in some cases, we actually
rent public facilities. Our social club is open to all men over the
age of nineteen (due to liquor license restrictions). Although our
club is for all men, the majority of our membership or supporters
are indeed gay. We do, however, have numerous bi-sexual, or even
some very straight men, within our community. These men are secure
enough within their own sexuality to enjoy the company of other
naked men without discrimination, judgment, social criticisms or
stigma, which much of the outside world simply doesn’t understand.
Our members come from a huge variety of ethnic backgrounds, ages,
sizes, cultures, religions, and socioeconomic levels, as well as
levels of self- or social acceptance, yet when being naked, they are
all equal.
The only requirement for
attending our events is that guests are aware of our internal
by-laws, while adhering to the most commonly acceptable social
graces, expected in any social environment. The major difference to
other social settings is that we do our activities naked. Being
naked brings an entirely different atmosphere of total friendly
acceptance and camaraderie, where there are no logos or stereotypes
to hide behind. Being naked simply means that the genitals are
exposed. In licensed establishment or on the street (during special
occasions, i.e. Pride) everyone must wear footwear. They are
therefore considered to be naked, not nude (void of any clothes.)
When attending a private home function, guests are expected to bring
their own towel to sit on, so furnishings are not damaged due to
their nudity. The host always has the final word in terms of
acceptable behaviour. To help guests understand the wishes of the
host in advance, we support a pepper-rating system, similar to the
one used in most Oriental-restaurants. An event without a rating
simply means that all men can enjoy this event. A single pepper
rating means that unobtrusive or discrete touching is acceptable, as
long as this doesn’t interfere with the focus of the gathering. A
double pepper rating therefore means, expect sexual activities.
Because of this rating system, guests decide in advance what to be
exposed to, regardless whether they participate.
Photography during our
events is never permitted, unless explicit permission was obtained
in advance from the Board of TNT!MEN, the event hosts, and the
subject(s). Quick cell-phone-photography is never permitted
anywhere, and will not receive permission. Most guests have few
problems with amicable touches or hugs, although one should always
be considered of those who don’t want this.
TNT!MEN is a large
community of more than three hundred and fifty active members on an
annual basis, plus thousands more non-member supporters and
friends. It requires the active participation of everyone involved
to fulfill our mandate. The Board activities include: creating a
large number of naked events; promoting and advertising these
activities; maintaining membership lists; disseminating information;
providing discounts and opportunities to its active membership;
collecting and distributing money to help organize and run events;
It speaks for those who can’t; It actively promotes social nudism,
wherever possible or acceptable; and it promotes respect for self
and body-acceptance.
TNT!MEN is always looking
for volunteers. Volunteer activities are often the easiest way of
becoming comfortable in a nudist environment. Volunteers run all our
events and activities. TNT!MEN stimulates these activities by giving
free attendance to volunteers, while we usually buy them a free
drink, in gratitude for their assistance. We even give free
membership to anyone who volunteers a minimum of three shifts during
a membership year. Therefore, not having financial means is simply
no excuse in being part of our nudist community. Therefore, every
man can participate in our FUN.
Sincerely,
The 2007 Board of Directors
of TNT!MEN
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